How to Plan a Meaningful Tombstone Unveiling Ceremony

A tombstone unveiling ceremony is a deeply personal moment for South African families, a time to gather, remember, and find peace together. At Mankweng Tombstones, we’ve helped families across the country turn this day into something truly beautiful and healing.

Here’s a simple, caring guide to planning yours.

Start with the Right Tombstone

Choose a memorial that feels like your loved one. Granite remains the most popular choice because it lasts generations, even in our harsh climate. Think about adding a favourite photo or special words. Many families tell us a laser-etched picture brings the biggest smiles (and tears) when the cloth comes off.
See our ideas on creative ways to incorporate photos on tombstones.

Pick a Date that Feels Right

Most unveilings happen 12 months after the funeral, though some families choose 6 or 24 months. Speak softly with your elders or pastor whatever brings the family comfort is the right time.

Keep the Day Simple and Sacred

• Invite close family and friends
• Arrange a short prayer or song
• Decide who will pull the cloth (often a child or grandchild)
• Have water and shade ready—our summers can be hot
• Dress neatly in dark colours out of respect

Helpful tip: read our gentle guide on what to wear to a tombstone unveiling.

Let Us Handle Delivery and Installation

With branches nationwide and delivery across South Africa (and beyond), Mankweng Tombstones makes sure your memorial is perfectly placed long before the ceremony. Curious about the process? Take two minutes to read what to expect during a tombstone installation.

Affordability Without Compromise

We’re proud to be one of South Africa’s most trusted and affordable tombstone manufacturers. Lay-bye plans, clear prices, and caring service mean you can give your loved one a dignified memorial without worry.

When the cloth finally falls and the stone stands shining in the sun, families always say the same thing: “It looks just like him… just like her.” That moment is why we do this work.

You don’t have to plan alone. Call or visit any Mankweng branch—we’ll walk with you, every gentle step of the way.